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Welcome to Holdinghands.com

A Place for Connection

Holding Hands by Suely Brandes, LMFT

The concept of Holding Hands is the building block, the foundation of true intimacy. Most relationships will stay at the holding hands level indefinitely, while others may progress into a more intimate level, but only if mutually desired.

Our Mission and Vision

Holdinghands.com was born from the vision of a therapist with a strong background in human resources, dedicated to addressing the loneliness epidemic impacting mental and physical well-being. This platform offers a safe, inclusive space for individuals 21 and over to connect, from young adults to seniors.

Our concept is simple yet profound: Holding hands is a universally intimate act that doesn’t demand a long-term commitment. It allows connections to form naturally and at their own pace, reducing the pressure often associated with typical relationship-based sites.

Visitors can look forward to a relaxed environment where friendships or deeper relationships can blossom without expectations, obligations, or promises.

Join Us

Whether you’re seeking friendship or contemplating a future relationship, Holdinghands.com offers an alternative that values emotional safety, individuality, and personal growth. Meet someone over coffee or a walk, ALWAYS IN A PUBLIC PLACE, taking things at your pace without commitments, in a world that embraces diversity and empathy.

Safety & Inclusivity

Safety is paramount for Holdinghands.com. We vet users to protect against potential threats and implement a waiver system regarding criminal and severe mental health issues. Our platform welcomes all, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, background, ethnicity, religion or political preferences.

elderly couple walking forward holding hands

Empowering Education
& Mental Health

We go beyond connections by offering access to cutting-edge information and resources on mental health topics such as anxiety, depression, addiction, and more. The site aims to connect users with local experts and opportunities for growth within the mental health field.

Creating Global Peace
& Understanding

In a world divided by differences amplified by social media, Holdinghands.com stands as a beacon for global harmony. Through the simple act of holding hands, we can bridge gaps, foster peace, and reduce loneliness—a modest yet effective idea that can unite us all.

ABOUT SUELY

Benefits of psychological connection by an expert

The inspiration for Holdinghands.com came to me during a challenging transition in my life. After many decades of marriage, three children, and three grandchildren, my ex-husband moved out, leaving me to navigate a new chapter alone. I had always believed in “till death do us part” and the importance of continuously nurturing a relationship, so I found myself feeling bewildered and lonely.

However, I wasn’t looking for another committed relationship at the time. Instead, I dreamed of a simple, comforting connection—like meeting someone at a mall, holding hands, and sharing a cup of coffee. This small gesture, I imagined, could alleviate the isolation I felt.

Through many conversations with clients, I’ve observed a common regret: entering new relationships too hastily out of loneliness. Just the simple act of holding hands in a public setting can diminish feelings of loneliness and restore a sense of hope.